#Boy Bye However, there are some super weird things that come with dating after your twenty-something days are behind you.
If you're Jess from a date, trying to actually pencil in a date when you have a killer career and family priorities, and dodging increasingly inappropriate comments about your love life from family.
Whether it's because a woman would rather put more time and effort into her job than into a relationship or because with this particular guy she's really only interested in getting naked, the sex-only setup can be fulfilling.
Casual sex works "when you're in a good place with your job, social life, and personal life, and all that's missing is sex," says Desiree Dean, author of .
"If he's interested in something beyond what you're comfortable with, tell him in a nonjudgmental way, 'You know, I'm just not into that—how about we try this other thing? Finally, sex is what this matchup is all about, so you should feel free to have lots of it.
"Consider this time in your life a prime opportunity to explore your sexuality," says Dean.
found that for both men and women, no-strings-attached nooky improves feelings of sexual satisfaction—so why not use this opportunity as a time to become more open and daring in bed?
Whatever way you want to push your sexual boundaries—whether it's trying out fantasies or telling a guy specifically (and loudly) what you'd like him to do to you—be direct.
Are you kidding yourself to think that getting it on with a guy, but not getting much else, is all you need or want?
But is spending plenty of "no-strings-attached" quality time in the bedroom really enough?