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We are easy prey, and when you have a man saying everything you want to hear it’s easy to get lost in emotion.The fake soldier comes across real by using fallen troops pictures and names. That scheme has also taken on the term Catfished, thanks to the popularity of the MTV Show based on people who are seeking to find out if the people they have become romantically involved with online; are really who they say they are.
I am astounded at the number of emails I have still been getting from women who are are engaged or dating so called military personnel whom they have never seen and have only talked to online.
The dating online part isn’t even really the shocking part for me.
Fortunately, for me I was lucky he (my husband) was exactly he said he was and did all of the above…well except for the hiding me in the woods part!
Unfortunately , for many it doesn’t turn out that way.
We had a grainy version of Netmeeting that was as good as not seeing the person at all.
I booked a ticket via Amtrak and came down here to Fort Bragg, North Carolina on a whim , really thinking that this guy I am talking to is going to exist and sweep me off my feet and hopefully won’t hide me in the woods in a dufflebag.It was one of those typical relationships I knew I shouldn’t have began in the first place solely because of the distance, but when we continued talking after he went back to his duty station it just grew into something.The doubts were frustrating: does it make sense to even attempt dating someone states away?Sure they can google but if you happen to be on the phone and it’s taking them awhile to answer you that’s a red flag. “I will never date a soldier” is the phrase I used to tell myself religiously.However we met on [email protected] before it became and when it was free.We talked everyday for three hours on the phone and it was eight months before I actually came here to Fayetteville , North Carolina to meet him in person.Even if they say they are not in a combat zone but stationed overseas, they will never need you to sign off for them to go on leave. If this so called soldier says he needs money to get out of being AWOL ( A term used in the United States Military to describe a soldier or other military member who has left his or her post without permission (usually in disagreement with a particular order”via Urban Dictionary”.) he is lying. Scammers like to use pictures of fallen soldiers so use the tool that the Catfish cast uses to search images with just one click. You can also use some of the websites and Facebook pages that try to expose fake soldiers such as Stolen Valor and their official website Guardians of Valor . She has written for various outlets including Sheknows and Lifetime and is a big fan of cupcakes and french fries.No money you pay will get him out of this punishable act. Ask scammers what they do in the military and their MOS which is a number followed by a letter. Whether it made sense or not, it’s not something I regret at all.He even flew me out to where he was during the spring semester and that was the greatest amount of effort I had ever seen from a guy to spend time with me.