It’s awesome to have somebody around who’s “been there, done that”, and can discuss it with you intimately.Their advice can give you huge epiphanies and help you get to the next level in your life…This will give you a significantly better sex life.
Women who have an edge – who know what they want, and go for it. More often than not, these types of women have been older than me. When I was younger (18-21), I thought these types of women were out of my league. But in the last few years, I’ve come to see that these women are very attainable, even when you’re a young guy. But it wasn’t until I shifted my mindset – and altered some of my behaviors – that I started to attract more of these women than ever before… If you’ve ever fantasized about attracting and dating sexy older women, you’re in the right place.
Older women will give you the kind of constructive criticism you need to improve in the bedroom – things that younger women are too afraid to say, or not experienced enough to notice.
These are low-key social environments, and they’re often packed with attractive older women.
I’m from Boston, and one of the best locations there is Liberty Hotel.
It’s almost like they’re afraid to take the initiative just because she’s a few years older. They just sort of hope that the woman will magically fall into their lap – that she’ll do all the work. Whether you’re in a bar, setting up a date, or just hanging out with an older woman, you always need to be leading. When setting up a date, give her a potential day/time, the venue, and the activity. yup, you are right” Me: “As far as I’m concerned, you were the only girl worth talking to in that place. This sounds obvious, but it’s a surprisingly easy trap to fall into. They care more about the potential of where you could be.
For example: You: “Hey Natalia – what’s your week look like? I thought you were sweet, gorgeous, and cool, and I was looking forward to seeing you again. So yeah, I think we’ll have a great time, and I think you know that too, and it’d be a shame to sacrifice it over something so trivial” Her: “Ok… I’m free tomorrow and Wednesday evenings.” Me: “Wednesday evening it is then. Especially if she makes more money than you, is further ahead in her career, and is more mature. And all that means is that you should be working to become the best version of yourself. And that’s by being a fun, adventurous guy to hang around with.Make strong eye contact, speak from your chest, and approach with the same confidence as you would with a woman your own age. Here’s an example from a text conversation I had with an older woman: Me: “What days off/free nights do you have this week to hang out with sexy/mean Boston guys? and yes, You are sexy/mean indeed but I think I’m too old for you and you should hang out with funny and cute younger girls.” Me: “Age is just a number, I’m sure you’ve figured that out by now. Even though you’re being playful, you give her a slight feeling that she’s lost you, and then got another chance with you.Lead Unapologetically Leading is even more important with older women. Well, when most younger men talk with older women, they make the mistake of letting the women call the shots. Figure out the logistics and confidently direct the interaction back to your place or hers. We’re both mature adults here” Her: “Age is just a number… Keep a Steady Head Don’t let yourself be overwhelmed by older women. Older women, and women in general, don’t care so much about where you are in life when you’re in your twenties…You’ll see yourself as a man who can naturally start to attract women.It’s the same reason why older women often tell me I seem older than I am – I have much more experience than most guys my age, and even more experience than guys older than me…Throughout this process, you’ll make mistakes and have some failures, and you’ll mature along the way. You’ll understand how to deal with women in different situations.You’ll start to develop more empathy and confidence.Try to find your best local location and start checking it out. If you approach them while thinking, “I hope she doesn’t notice how much younger I am. :)” She’ll appreciate your initiative and might even compliment you on it.Also check out for some social and networking events. Approach Confidently So you’re at a place with some attractive older women. I hope she gives me a chance,” you’re going to get shut down. Overcome the Age Difference As you get more experience attracting and dating older women, you won’t have to deal with the age difference as much – she’ll be able to tell you’re comfortable with it. This will never work.” If you choose this route, you need to make sure to actually smile and keep it playful.Or at that very least, add some depth to your personality and help you mature. Okay – now let’s talk about how to actually attract some sexy older women…Get Comfortable Dating Girls Your Own Age It’s not that dating older women is more difficult… And if you don’t have at least a little bit of experience dating women your own age, you’ll probably have a hard time. You should get out there and follow advice like Tripp’s, and start meeting and hanging out with women in your age range or a few years younger. With more interactions, comes more learning opportunities.