The girl at the rental car place was taking her sweet time and the printer was malfunctioning so by the time I got out of there I was already 15 minutes late to class. In it, she describes her hectic day and how nobody/nothing was on time.
This email is a clear red flag to John that she might be somewhat self absorbed (perhaps a bit shallow) and atrocious at interpersonal communication skills.
I have known Sally for almost 10 years and she does not fit into one of those categories.
She could have asked him to expand upon his love for dining and cooking.
She could have asked him where he plans on traveling this year since he told her that he loves to travel internationally.
In the end, I took a look at her guided communication with John and created a sample email that she SHOULD have sent him in the first place: “Hey John ! So tell me a bit more about your love for cooking….what’s your favorite cooking style? I don’t cook as often as I like to due to my sometimes hectic work schedule, but when I do I love to make the same pasta dishes that my Grandmother brought here from the old country. I just got back from Hawaii a few months ago (for work).
I haven’t been outside the country but am starting to do some research on flights as I would love to go to Italy this summer.Oh well, I shouldn’t complain because for the past 4 years I have been working towards this promotion and I guess it comes with the territory.After work I had exactly 30 minutes to drop my car off at the dealership before Pilates class began. ” – Sally Ok, so what we have here on the surface is a seemingly innocuous looking email from Sally to a guy named John.Lately I have been noticing a trend amongst the females in which they are not able to get guys to respond to their emails. She is funny and witty and the exact type of girl that any guy would dream of dating. In the past week and a half, she has emailed about 15 different guys and not one has responded to her request for communication.For illustration purposes, I am going to use my friend Sally who came to me with the exact same problem last week. I took a look at her personality profile, then took a look at her emails and found the root cause of the problem.This is extremely impersonal and basically says to John: “Hey, I’m the center of attention here and TMZ and the Paparazzi should be following me around with a t.v.crew and camera to document the most mundane events in my life.” See you at pm on Fox Channel 11 right after the Simpsons !!In it, there are many topics of discussion that John can “pull from” to reply back with a great response.Trust me, if a man is into you…you send him an email that is similar to what I just wrote, he will have no problem composing a great reply.e Harmony already gives you the questions (or you can ask your own) and all your match has to do is respond to those questions either in their own words or pre-answers that e Harmony lists.So before you get to the point where you can freely communicate back and forth in the e Harmony system, you have already gotten to know quite a bit about the other person.