It seems whatever age I am (and, spoiler alert: I'm in my thirties now), I've found myself saying "guys my age don't have their shit together." Even when I was on Tinder, I set my minimum age to a couple years older then me because I had no interest in dating younger.
But then I met Ben (name has been changed to protect the overly sensitive).
So long as you see your age as an advantage, so will your cub.
But he can smell it the second you feel insecure about your age, and being catty to younger women is the first symptom. And to a cub, that type of body isn’t a turn off—it’s different and exciting.
You’ll thrive in the game of dating younger men if you can pin that down, and if you can avoid the bad behavior of your fellow 40-plus felines.
Trying to dress like you’re half your age makes you look twice your age.
I remember being a little lamb myself in my mid-twenties.
I felt sad for him and I understood what he was going through, but I was relieved to know that those woods were behind me.
I have a savings account, a functioning coffee maker, and an organized bookshelf — things he could only wish for.
I looked at my throw pillows — which I once thought looked cheap — and for the first time, I thought, "wait, am I actually the queen of the world?