I am guilty of this too, but all this Facebook, Bachelor loving stuff can take us so far away from reality that we can have unrealistic expectation of our own lives. Wouldn’t it be so amazing if I stand next to him in line at Starbuck's?
We may judge other’s endlessly and we may even start comparing ourselves to them and in turn feeling bad about ourselves, our inability to find love and happiness and then we just sit there, feeling paralyzed by our unworthiness and do nothing. ” Carry with you the energy of ‘Wow it could happen today’ but don’t be disappointed if it doesn’t.
I know that if I met my husband 5 years earlier, it NEVER would’ve worked. because I know I had to go through all of those experiences so that I was able to recognize him as my soulmate and allow myself to receive the love I deserved. Does he or doesn’t he like me shouldn’t be such a hard question to answer! I remember when I was younger and dating someone I thought could’ve been ‘the one’ and talking to my friend and saying “How do you know? And as it happened, I had dreams telling me it was the wrong relationship and I just didn’t want to listen. BE EXCITED- It Could Happen Anywhere, Any Time Now, I don’t mean you should sleep in your makeup and have chocolate chip cookies baking in your oven 24/7. What I do mean is that in your body, in your soul, own the energetic space of “OMG!
All the experiences you are going through right now is working out perfectly so that you can meet your soulmate. Know that and know the same thing is happening for him too. Divine timing and meeting your soulmate always makes a perfect story for the family and the kiddos down the road! You Can’t Just Be Sitting And Watching The Bachelor ALL DAY!!! You are probably not watching The Bachelor ALL day… how often are you just watching The Bachelor or indulging in some other guilty pleasure shows (#Gilmore Girls), scrolling through Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat dwelling in other people’s lives. If the answer isn’t clear to you- don’t stop and analyze it for hours and hours, keep it moving until you ‘know’ or have a thought to take an inspired action. Wouldn’t it be nice if today was the day I met my soulmate?
I remember what it was like going to those family functions ALONE and seeing all of your cousins all coupled up or going to that childhood friend’s wedding alone or with someone you barely knew (#totallydidthat) to avoid the unavoidable awkwardness. Most of us have been there in some way but here is the deal… We think that we have to refine and perfect ourselves for our partner.
Now we can go all feminist and talk about how it is okay to be alone and you don’t need a man and that’s ALL TRUE… He isn’t going to get snatched up by that girl with the resting b*tch face at the end of the bar forever. But the reality is that we just have to be unapologetically ourselves!You can often find Ashley cuddling with her husband and their Shih-Tzu Holly as they dream of moving somewhere with an endless summer.The Thrive Global Community welcomes voices from many spheres.The law of attraction is the belief that "like attracts like," and that by focusing on positive thoughts we can bring about positive results.By understanding and following this simple rule, you will be empowered to attract a lifelong partner.Once you have that ideal image in your mind, replay it over and over, until one day you will find yourself actually living it.The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can transform your love life.Ashley loves to talk about love and manifesting while drinking lemon water from a mason jar.Ashley has an office in Greenwich, CT and sees clients virtually.And I know that it could totally *BOOM *and happen for you too. If you are someone who desires a relationship and to meet your soulmate, you will! But in the mean time give yourself a big hug, be unapologetically yourself, let go of the drama and GET EXCITED because it could just happen today.Ashley Watson is a Psychotherapist, Spiritual Life Coach and Kundalini Yoga Teacher who is passionate about helping women feel empowered around the flow of dating and relationships, career and spirituality.