Maybe not mentioning the dumb sh*t you did abroad is a good idea, too.8. Here are the tell-tale signs he’s 30 going on 13: A) He still proactively buys tickets to an EDM concert and can only pontificate about DJs, B) He is incapable of choosing a proper place, date and time for your first meeting (i.e.doesn’t have a game plan), C) He is the organizer of organized parties (i.e.
Don’t play stupid when you know what you’re talking about; instead, allow him to teach you something new when you don’t. You will be pleasantly surprised to learn that you don’t need to nose-dive into a face full of pubes -- unless he moonlights as Bozo the Clown.12.
Smart girls with personality can rejoice after years of griping that guys never give them a chance because the boys have finally grown up! You'll know when he likes you or not; 30-year-olds don’t play games.
That being said, early on, a lot of the magic (so to speak) is due to the appeal of their age.
Later on, once you’re in and they trust you won’t ruin their reputation, run away with their money (chiefly in the form of wasted presents), or go batsh*t crazy, they’re hooked. So just keep your inner-psycho on a leash for a couple months, kay?
They have a specific, thought-out reasoning as to why they’re only romantically compatible with guys who are older... Throughout my entire love life -- or whatever you want to call what has been 23 years of going through men, some for longer than others -- I have never so much as lusted after any guy who is younger than I am. Without going too much into my dating career, the main factor in all of my relationships -- significant or otherwise -- has always been the man’s age.
For me, and many other women like me, it all begins with a number. Before agreeing to a set-up, as a follow-up response or even playing a flirtatious game, I always find the answer to the question, “So, how old are you? And if you don’t know who the Seavers are from "Growing Pains," then you don’t stand a chance.
So, now that I’ve glorified older men enough (don’t worry, young, 20-something lads, your day will come…
something I’m sure you all heard as freshman during "Hell Week"), the next logical step is to break down what goes into dating them. A challenge is enticing, but don’t take it too far, lest you become an angry remonstrance.
Thus, we ladies have looked to older men to fulfill those more grown-up needs.
To engage with an older guy is to peek inside a different point-of-view on life.